I grew up with college football.
Correction: I grew up with Buckeye football.
I was actually born a Nittany Lion. My father’s first teaching position was at Penn State. I don’t remember much about those early years. I do remember a big lion statue, but maybe that memory comes from trips back to State College when I was older.
My first memories of Buckeye football games were in the 1970s. During Archie Griffin’s Heisman Trophy-winning years. Yes, plural. Griffin is still college football’s only two-time Hesiman winner. Back then, we had two season tickets, and my mom, sisters, and I took turns going to the games with my dad. It was just a given that my dad would get one of those two seats. Some things are non-negotiable.
I can remember begging to go, but it wasn’t really the game that held my attention. There was so much more going on in that stadium. There were cheerleaders and a marching band. (Not just any marching band. TBDBITL. Look it up if you’re not sure.) I didn’t always know who had the ball or what yard line we were on, but I was always 100% certain of the whereabouts of Brutus, the Buckeye’s big-headed nut mascot. (Laugh if you must, but I still love that guy.)
And then there was the SCORE. I was always aware of the score. I mean, that’s why we came, right? To see the Buckeyes win. In the end, the most important thing was the score.
If, while I was busy finding Brutus, the crowd would leap to their feet and cheer, I’d ask my dad, “What happened? Did we score a touchdown?”
“No.”
“Then why are we cheering?”
“We sacked their quarterback.”
“Oh. How many points is that worth?”
“None.”
“Oh.” I didn’t see the point in getting all excited if it didn’t change the score.
I’d go back to band-watching. When more cheers erupted, it would start all over.
“What happened? Did we kick a field goal?”
“No.”
“Then why are we cheering?”
“We got a first down.”
“Oh. How many points is that worth?”
“None.”
“Oh.”
Before long, I’d realize that four quarters could last a long time. A very long time. The clock ticked down, but it stopped. It stopped frequently.
I realized that time went faster if I actually paid attention to what was happening on the field. And it was a lot more fun if you celebrated every little good thing that happened.
A good kick? YAY!
A long pass? HOORAY!
A penalty call that wasn’t on us? YES!
Of course, those touchdowns and field goals were worth extra-loud cheering and multiple high fives. But the whole thing was just so much more exciting when we celebrated the small stuff.
Isn’t life much the same? I know my writing life is. It needs to be.
Not every day is going to bring an offer of publication, an award notification, or an invitation to a big event. We can’t wait to “score” to celebrate.
Nail a revision? YAY!
Get an encouraging, helpful rejection? HOORAY!
Read a great tip about an editor who’s looking for something just like your work-in-progress? YES!
We have to cheer every small step. We have to celebrate every yard gained toward the goal.
If we don’t, we’ll find ourselves in a very long game looking for the big-headed nut while the clock ticks slowly down.
Celebrate the first down. Life’s a lot more fun that way.
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